Langsung ke konten utama

How to Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend/Wife

Do you want to impress your partner every day, month, year, or even endlessly to spark a new love and cherish that love as it grows without it becoming boring? By changing your attitude and grooming habits, you can do just that. Your love will always be better than new.


  1. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 1
    Do not try be the perfect girl. Know when to be patient and when to be wise, or when to be understanding. Do not push pressing matters aside in fear of ruining his mood, but do not bring problems up on a daily basis. Do not accuse your partner of something unless you have proof. Try to put yourself in their shoes and try to let them know you are there for them. Try not to be too insecure, but if that is who you are, let them know. People want a relationship with feeling, not just romance and sexual encounters. Insecurity is common in relationships, and if you feel insecure in your relationship, you should communicate your feelings. Try not to complain about every little thing, after awhile it becomes tedious.
    • If you remain insecure in a relationship even after you tell them, do not give up on your relationship. Thing can still get better if you continue to work on it.
  2. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 2
    Be their own temptation, but do not overdo it. Try to look beautiful physically, but keep in mind some people like women in other shapes and sizes. Embrace who you are and be confident in who you are, because you are beautiful in your own way. People generally like confident women, and this is sure to draw their attention. Physical attraction is an important part of any romantic relationship, so it would be beneficial to groom yourself and use a little bit of makeup (believe it or not, people don't particularly find a ton of makeup appealing) to brighten your face and eyes.
    • Maintain good hygiene.
    • Try working out to build your confidence.
    • Go to the salon and have your hair and nails done. Strengthening your confidence will strengthen your relationship.
  3. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 3
    Love them faithfully with patience and understanding. They will experience good and bad times in their life and it is important to be there for them when they need you.
  4. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 4
    Show small acts of love. Take care of them when they're sick, cuddle them while they sleep, kiss them on their forehead, or whisper to them "I love you" or "I will be always here for you".
  5. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 5
    Give them surprise gifts, especially at unexpected times. This shows them that you are thinking of them.
  6. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 6
    Keep your love life from being boring. People enjoy a little romantic time, so improving your sexual life with them will make both of you happier.
  7. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 7
    Do activities together. Travel together, do activities you both enjoy. Quality time together can make your relationship stronger.
  8. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 8
    Have realistic goals for them. They are only human, and if you give them something to work on they will likely try to make you happy.
  9. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 9
    If you are religious, you can use that to strengthen your bond. Do not force your beliefs on them, but be open about your views.
  10. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 10
    Support them with their hobbies even if you are not interested. Showing that you care about what they like can make them feel more comfortable around you.
  11. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 11
    Stay clean and neat, practice good hygiene. This will make you more confident in your body image, and it will make them see that you care about yourself. Have a good posture, this will make you look taller and more confident.
  12. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 12
    Maintain an equal relationship. You should put as much into the relationship as they do, and vice versa.
  13. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 13
    Listen to them. Focus on their problems and complaints and try to help them fix them. Take some time and do the same for yourself.
  14. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 14
    Do not take your attention away from your own life. Although they may be the center of your focus now, if things go badly between the two of you, you need to be able to stand on your own feet and continue on in life.
  15. Image titled Be a Realistic Dream Girlfriend_Wife Step 15
    Realize that there will be some major differences in how you both view different topics. Try not to make an argument out of them and try to be understanding of their views. Let them know if you feel like they aren't doing the same.


  • Don't be too clingy. It creates a bad image not only for you but for him as well.
  • In most circumstances, do not change for him. Try to be yourself at all times, and if he wants you to try something new do not take it the wrong way. Sometimes change is a good thing.
  • If he hurts you in an unforgivable way, such as cheating or abuse, he probably does not give you the necessary respect for a healthy relationship.


Postingan populer dari blog ini

How to Be in a Relationship with a 'Carnivore' when You Have a Vegan or Vegetarian Lifestyle

The decision to adopt vegan or vegetarian dietary habits or lifestyle may cause unnecessary drama with family and friends. "How will you get enough protein?!" they may protest. Then there are the ones that might say, "I like my meat n' potatoes," implying that you should be content with that fare as well. There will be the ones who rib you, whether they pass you the roast beef at dinner with a sly smile and an offer to serve you a slice or something else. Of course, the most important––and challenging––ones will be the ones with whom you live and the ones you love.
Method1 Teasers and Loved Ones 1 Ignore the teasers. The ones who tease you are generally nothing to worry about, because they are often the ones who feel comfortable around you and care about you a great deal. At times you may become irritated at them because you feel they are getting on your back, but is important not to lash out at them. If you must make it known that they are getting on …

How to Be Hot Around Your Boyfriend

From all we see in movies and magazines, most girls think they have a firm idea of what it means to be hot. Pouting your lips or wearing a sexy dress can factor into the equation, but they're only part of a bigger picture. If you have a boyfriend and want to dazzle him with your sex appeal, you should think about the way you feel and act as much as the way you look. Even if your boyfriend already adores you, you'll still likely blow his socks off if you go that extra mile.
Method1 Keeping Your Body Healthy 1 Get enough sleep. While it sounds like the least glamorous advice possible, getting sufficient sleep is an important part of looking beautiful. While it's recommended you should get at least 7 hours a night, many try to slip by with far less than that. If you want to look and act your best, make sure to get enough rest.[1] Your skin will dry and age faster if you don't. It's also a good idea to try to fall asleep at the same time each night. Try to be aw…

How to Be a Dominatrix

A dominatrix takes the leadership role in a sensual or sexual relationship, and her partner (the sub or submissive) agrees to comply with all wishes and orders. Be a dominatrix by taking sexual control, respecting the boundaries of your partner, and trying new things. Make sure you always keep safety in mind and talk through all of your and your partner's wishes before engaging in BDSM play.
Method1 Understanding Consent and Safety as a Dominatrix 1 Never assume consent. Consent must be freely given. A person who is intoxicated or unconscious cannot consent. It’s best to check in from time to time to make sure. Of course, with BDSM it can be trickier to ensure consent, which is why it is important to set boundaries beforehand.[1] 2 Set boundaries before playing the dominatrix. Talk to your partner about what’s off-limits, and what could be off-limits, depending on a number of factors, including pain, pressure, and psychological discomfort.[2][3] Using a “want/will/won’t” lis…